Living Arrangements Following Separation: Can I Make My Spouse Leave the Matrimonial Home?

Living Arrangements Following Separation: Can I Make My Spouse Leave the Matrimonial Home?

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Posted April 2, 2019

Married spouses are each entitled to possession of the matrimonial home, even if only one spouse is the owner.  Following a separation, living in the same house can be difficult and stressful.  So, what can you do?  Can you require your spouse to leave the house?  The short answer is no, at least not without a court order.  If living in the same house has become untenable, you and your spouse either need to agree as to who will remain in the house or you will need to get an order from the court for exclusive possession of the matrimonial home.

When will a court grant exclusive possession of the home to one spouse over the other?

Section 24 of the Family Law Act deals with orders for exclusive possession.  The section provides the criteria for the court to consider in making an order for exclusive possession.  Among the factors the court will consider are the best interests of the children involved, including their wishes and the effects on them of a move, the financial position of both spouses, the availability of other suitable and affordable accommodations and any violence committed by a spouse against the other spouse or children.

It will not be sufficient to claim that it is simply uncomfortable to continue living in the same household.

Who pays the costs for the home?

If you obtain an order for exclusive possession, the court has the authority to order that you make periodic payments to the other spouse, which is referred to as “occupation rent.”  Some of the factors the court will consider in determining whether to make an order for “occupation rent” include, among others, the conduct of the non-occupying spouse, including the failure to pay support, the conduct of the occupying spouse, timing of the claim, expenses being paid by the occupying spouse, whether the children reside with the occupying spouse.  You may also be required to pay for expenses related to the matrimonial home.

What happens if you breach an order for exclusive possession?

If an order for exclusive possession has been made allowing your spouse to occupy the home and you contravene the order, you may be arrested, without a warrant, and if convicted, be ordered to pay fines.

If you are separated and want to know more about orders for exclusive possession of a matrimonial home, please contact one of our family law lawyers who can provide you with advice as to your specific circumstances.

This blog post was written by Kate Wright, a member of the Family Law, Wills and Estates and Litigation teams.  She can be reached at 613-369-0383 or at kate.wright@mannlawyers.com.

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Kate Wright

Kate Wright

I am a member of the family law, wills and estates and estate litigation service groups at Mann Lawyers. I am an enthusiastic and compassionate advocate for my clients. My experience in family law includes advising clients on property division, support issues, custody and access matters, domestic contracts and private adoptions. I assist clients with preparing wills, estate planning and administration matters, and disputes over estates, including issues related to capacity and dependent’s relief. My approach to dispute resolution is based on the needs of each client and their own particular circumstances. I am trained in Collaborative Practice and am a member of Collaborative Practice Ottawa. I seek to empower clients to resolve issues in the manner that best suits their interests. I graduated from the Schulich School of Law at Dalhousie University in 2008. I articled with a national firm in Calgary and was called to the Alberta Bar... Read More

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Kate Wright

I am a member of the family law, wills and estates and estate litigation service groups at Mann Lawyers. I am an enthusiastic and compassionate advocate for my clients. My experience in family law includes advising clients on property division, support issues, custody and access matters, domestic contracts and private adoptions. I assist clients with preparing wills, estate planning and administration matters, and disputes over estates, including issues related to capacity and dependent’s relief. My approach to dispute resolution is based on the needs of each client and their own particular circumstances. I am trained in Collaborative Practice and am a member of Collaborative Practice Ottawa. I seek to empower clients to resolve issues in the manner that best suits their interests. I graduated from the Schulich School of Law at Dalhousie University in 2008. I articled with a national firm in Calgary and was called to the Alberta Bar... Read More

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